“As women, not being overly educated on how our sexual experiences should be, when I had my first orgasm from a self love sesh I realised how much I was missing,” she wrote.
“It literally changed my life and confidence forever… being single for so long has motivated me to understand loving myself alone. And it’s fun!"
Ella has “no shame” around self-love, something she’s encouraging other women to embrace as she and other reality stars start to speak more candidly about sex.
From posting on OnlyFans accounts, to sharing details of their own sex lives and even launching their own sex toys a la Abbie Chatfield, Aussie stars are being more honest than ever about pleasure.
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It’s inspired millions of Aussie women to do the same, with sex toy sales spiking in recent years, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic when self-love was all some of us could get.
“I have used a variety of sexual wellness products to understand what suits my anatomy best, and what sends my body into a hot flush,” she added cheekily.
“And I’ve found the Empress 2 does this the best.”
It probably helps that she’s making some cash off the deal too – after all, there’s nothing like money in the bank to make a girl feel sexy.
Fortunately she passed some of the financial boost onto her fans too, offering them 50 per cent off the Empress 2 with her code ELLA. We love a generous influencer!
So can we expect Ella to go full Chantelle Otten and start trialling sex toys on her Instagram page?
Maybe not yet – after all, Chantelle is a sexologist so it’s part of the job – but we’re eager to see where Ella’s sex-positive career goes next.