Abbie Chatfield’s confession about sex with Konrad Bien-Stephens

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Abbie Chatfield just shared candid new details about her sex life with boyfriend and Bachelorette alum Konrad Bien-Stephens, but it’s not at all what fans expected from the spicy couple.

WATCH: Abbie discusses her sex life with Konrad

The Bachie stars are in an open relationship, which they revealed in February, but this week Abbie confessed on her It’s A Lot podcast that she and Konrad haven’t had sex for almost four weeks.

Is that because they’re seeing other people? Is there trouble in paradise? Nope, Abbie revealed there’s a surprisingly relatable reason they’re not getting frisky.

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“We’ve only had one night together where I’m not working or we’re not away from each other, and that was last night,” she said. 

“But I’ve also not really been masturbating either. I’ve been having a really hard time with libido. I was talking to my therapist because I was like, ‘Oh my god, does that mean I don’t actually have feelings for Konrad?’ Which I do obviously!”

Abbie opened up about experiencing low libido. (Credit: Instagram)

Abbie went on to say that while there’s no issues in her relationship with Konrad, she simply doesn’t have a strong sex drive at the moment.

“It’s not Konrad, it’s like I can’t be f–ked [having sex]. And also my UTI [urinary tract infection] issues, I’m like, ‘I really can’t be bothered with this. I don’t have time to have a UTI,” she said.

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Abbie’s candour comes four months after she revealed her relationship with Konrad has a “different structure” than traditional couples.

“Mummy and daddy aren’t breaking up,” she said on her podcast. “We’re just having a different structure to our relationship. So we’re open. We’re in an open relationship which we love.”

Konrad and Abbie are in an open relationship. (Credit: Instagram)

Konrad added that he hadn’t been in an open relationship before, but admitted it’s something he wants to “explore and navigate”.

The pair met while Brooke Blurton’s season of The Bachelorette was still airing, and went public with their romance prior to the finale, which caused a fallout between the former besties.

Brooke claimed Abbie displayed “white privilege” for revealing her new beau before the final episode aired, which Abbie has since publicly apologised for.

This article originally appeared on our sister site, Now To Love.

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