Once, co-writers, sometimes co-actors, and always an iconic duo (on-screen and off-screen), Harriet Dyer and Patrick Brammall’s real-life love story is one that has us (and the rest of Australia) smitten.
They first linked up in 2015 when the pair crossed paths on the set of No Activity. The pair relocated, separately, to LA a year later to pursue bigger opportunities (and, now we know, true love). The couple did their best to keep their relationship out of the spotlight; however, dating rumours finally started getting out around 2017.
And when the couple co-wrote and co-starred in a local TV show that became a global sensation, their life took a complete 180. In the hit show, Colin from Accounts, Patrick and Harriet’s characters Gordon Crapp and Ashley Mudden are brought together with a classic “meet-cute”, and throughout the season we see the two bond over a stray dog (named Colin), overcome insecurities together, and navigate the raw emotions of a new relationship.
Keen to learn more about this on-screen/off-screen romance? Strap in – we answer all your budding questions about Australia’s favourite couple, below.

Are Harriet Dyer and Patrick Brammall together?
Since dating rumours between the two started making waves in 2017, in August 2017, the two finally confirmed their relationship. Four years later, on a trip to Tampa, Patrick popped the question.
We find out in a cheeky photo dump during their trip. Patrick Brammall lists the things to do in Tampa in March 2021…
“Things to do in Tampa in March
1. Catch a sunrise
2. Propose to girlfriend
3. Get married 5 days later
4. Kiss
5. Take photo with the best man
6. Have lunch immediately afterwards because making magic is hungry work.”
I’m not crying, you are.
What is the age difference between Patrick Brammall and Harriet Dyer?
Patrick was born on March 30, 1976, and Harriet was born on October 17, 1988. This means they have an age gap of approximately 12 years and 6 months.
Are the couple in Colin from Accounts a couple in real life?
Well, yes.
Harriet Dyer (who plays Ashley Mudden) and Patrick Brammall (who plays Gordon Crapp) co-wrote and co-star as the central couple in the Logie-winning show, Colin from Accounts. They aren’t just on-screen love interests; they’re married with two beautiful kids, Joni and Mabel.
Sweet moments in Patrick Brammall and Harriet Dyer’s relationship

Patrick and Harriet suit up for the Baftas
May 2025
Colin from Accounts was nominated for Best International Programme at the 2025 BAFTAs. The couple was seen in striking Ralph Lauren suits.

Welcome little Mabel
February 2025
The family’s growing! Harriet and Patrick welcome Mabel to the family in February. So precious!

Sweet snaps & new episodes!
June 2024
We are blessed with the cutest pic of all time – all while the release of episode 8 of Colin from Accounts drops on Binge.

‘Colin from Accounts’ wins big at the 2023 Logies
May 2023
The duo stole the show at the 2023 Logies by winning awards for Most Outstanding Comedy, and Harriet and Patrick winning Most Outstanding Actress and Most Outstanding Actor. Talk about a power couple!

Welcome to the fam, Joni Jane Brooklyn Brammall
September 2021
The couple welcomes their daughter, Joni Jane Brooklyn, into their lives via adoption. So sweet!

Patrick proposes to Harriet
March 2021
In an adorable photo dump on Instagram, Patrick announces the pair are engaged!

Patrick Brammall and Harriet Dyer get hitched!
March 2021
Five days after getting down on one knee, the two get married in a small, intimate beach ceremony. Plus, their pet dog, Wally, was the best man (complete with a bow tie, of course).